Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Dear Parents, Caregivers and Friends of St Mary’s School,
Well here we are in week ten of term two. We have passed the solstice and according to my diary, the half way stage of the year.
The question that we often ask yourself is where has the year gone? The answer is easy to see, in all that we as a school have done.
It seems to be a time when a number of representative teams are selected at both the primary and
secondary level. Whenever these teams are selected there are winners and losers. Some children get
selected who didn’t think that they would, some don’t get selected who thought they would. To make it tougher, some, who made a team the previous year, don’t get selected in the new year.
As with all selectorial matters there are winners and losers, happy and sad and even angry.
Writing as a parent who has had children move through and one who is still in this process, selectors and non selections normally equalize. The more advanced the team then the more impartial the sectors and coach tend to be as they also are judged on results and are often looking to achieve good results in the team they coach so they can fast forward their coaching career.
My daughters have been lucky to have coaches and selectors who had no children in the team, so merit generally was all that counted. Yes in some cases parents did try to have input but their sports body put a firm notice out saying, "that no correspondence from parents was acceptable and any would be sent to the administration to deal with".
We are all human, and we all want the best for our children. But it’s not about whether you get selected or not it’s how you deal with the fact. One of my daughters has three times missed out on selection in teams that general consensus thought she would have made. She was sad, but then she looked forward and set new goals and made the teams she aspired to.
Many people think that sport for children, under 15, should be only for fun to develop skills. They think that it’s not until they are adults, under 18, that teams should be totally competitive.
That is a question that varies from sport to sport, region to region and time to time.
What I do know is that people who stay in sport after they leave school are the ones who enjoy the sport—they play it because they want to, they are not always the ones who make the teams, but they are the ones who play sport for the right reasons.
Have a great break, Mike Brosnahan ( Principal)